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What Does it Take for True Enlightenment? Is It Only When We've Been Pushed to the Brink? Most People Would Initially Think So.
Youth is often characterized by frivolity, while adulthood may be marked by infatuation with romance, and middle age by the pursuit of fame and fortune. In our twilight years, we may find solace in self-deception. This pattern likely resonates with the majority of people.
For most ordinary individuals, true understanding of life's realities often dawns around the age of 40, a time when they bear the weight of being the family's pillar. Responsibilities mount as they care for the elderly, nurture the young, and navigate the pressures of work and society. In contrast, the upper class often gains profound insights in their early 20s, benefiting from a legacy of wisdom passed down through generations.
The greatest waste in a person's life is not squandering money but rather squandering time. After a lifetime of diligent effort, discovering that one's path was misguided, decades of striving are eclipsed by a single, correct choice.
Ultimately, the key lies in our inherent cognitive limitations and the limitations imposed by those who influence us. Some say that in this world, there are only two types of matters: 'None of your business' and 'None of my business.'
Many things that concern others do not affect us, and many things that concern us do not affect others. With age, you gradually realize this truth. A person's mental capacity is finite; we cannot fit every matter into our minds. Human life spans only a few decades.
In this limited lifespan, we cannot manage too many matters, nor should we concern ourselves with issues that have no relevance to us. A truly enlightened person understands that, in the end, life leads back to the self. By focusing on our own affairs, we move closer to a fulfilling life. |
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