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Edited by 977Iti at 22-12-2023 10:01 AM
In interpersonal communication, we are often constrained by subjective consciousness, easily placing ourselves at the center of our own perspective, and thus, unable to truly understand others. This is what we commonly refer to as being prejudiced. However, if we can avoid being prejudiced and try to see things from others' perspectives, we might be able to break down communication barriers and establish a deeper level of understanding and empathy.
I've noticed that people in daily life often easily jump to conclusions about others. For example, when witnessing a child misbehaving in a public square, our immediate reaction might be to blame the parents for not disciplining the child properly – assuming it's their fault. However, from a different perspective, the child might be suffering from conditions such as autism or ADHD, and the parents may be doing their best in a challenging situation. Similarly, when our own children lie to us, we tend to immediately think negatively, considering it a sign of rebellion. However, on deeper reflection, people often lie out of fear of punishment or reprimand, using deception as a means to escape. In such cases, it's crucial to listen to the reasons behind their actions, guide them toward the right path, and convey the message that admitting mistakes and correcting them is not as daunting as they might think.
In the workplace, there are also many instances of preconceived notions. Often, we judge someone based on their appearance or initial interactions, only to find out later that our assumptions were incorrect. Therefore, it's important not to jump to conclusions about every situation and to try to see things from different perspectives, which can help prevent misunderstandings.
I'm bringing up this topic because I've observed my sister often jumping to conclusions, thinking our parents are always wrong. As a bystander, I can see clearly that everything our parents do is for our well-being. Dealing with family disputes can be genuinely exhausting! |
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