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Around us, perhaps there's a friend who never wants to talk about her family. Whenever it's brought up, she either avoids the topic altogether or gives a faint smile, lightly brushing it off. Yet, from her eyes, I can always sense an indescribable melancholy and helplessness.
There's a friend around me who, in my eyes, always seems cheerful and optimistic, always bringing laughter and joy to her friends. However, I only recently learned that the story behind her is not as beautiful as it seems. In her childhood, her family was not a warm haven but a place filled with quarrels and conflicts. She and her brother grew up in a tense atmosphere where their parents often argued over trivial matters, making the home feel heavy and uneasy. The family's financial situation wasn't optimistic either; her parents often worried about making ends meet, which added pressure and distress to her and her brother.
Her parents' relationship was far from harmonious; her mother often shouted loudly, and her father occasionally lost his temper. However, growing up in such a family environment, she began to develop a profound fear and doubt about marriage and family life, hesitating to enter into matrimony. As she grew older, she, along with her brother and younger sibling, left their hometown, escaping from the shadows of their family. They built their own lives, grateful despite the strained family relationships, acknowledging the hard work their parents put into raising them.
However, Li has always been unable to shake off the shadow of her family; her views on love and marriage have been greatly influenced. She always chooses those scoundrels, even when her friends around her recognize their unsuitability. She persists in forgiving and enduring. As for marriage, she isn't particularly concerned because she has lost confidence in family and marriage.
Whenever she returns to her hometown, she always feels a sense of oppression and discomfort, despite wearing a smile on the outside. The atmosphere at home still makes her feel uneasy and unhappy; she prefers to distance herself from it all, seeking her own happiness and joy. Her experiences tell us that the influence of family on a person is profound and complex. An unhappy family can bring endless pain and trouble to children, even affecting their entire lives. Therefore, we should cherish the warmth and happiness of family, strive to create a harmonious and fulfilling family, and provide children with the best growth environment. |
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Post time 30-3-2024 06:39:41