In fact, both surface and substance are equally important.

Kabir903

"Today, let's talk about a perennial topic—surface and substance. Honestly, these two terms sometimes seem like siblings, and at other times, like sworn enemies. So, which one is more important? Should we pursue external brilliance, or should we focus on internal depth and quality?

Let's start with ""surface."" Surface, in simple terms, is the aspect of ourselves that we showcase to the outside world. Some say surface is a reflection of personal taste and serves as a ""passport"" in social situations. After all, who doesn't want to leave a good impression on others? Dressing appropriately, speaking eloquently, always giving off an air of sophistication—doesn't this provide a tremendous satisfaction to one's self-esteem? After all, you wouldn't want others' first impression of you to be a ""sloppy guy"" or a ""sloppy girl,"" right?

But the pursuit of surface should not go overboard. Some people, in order to maintain their external image, end up borrowing excessively and living in a world of vanity. Every day, they wear a mask, afraid to reveal even a hint of their true selves. Such individuals may seem glamorous on the surface, but internally, they may already be overwhelmed. Honestly, at times, surface becomes a burden, a constraint. At such moments, perhaps it's time to turn our attention to ""substance.""

""Substance,"" in essence, is your authentic inner self—your character, cultivation, and integrity. Some say that when your substance is good, it naturally radiates an inner glow that attracts people effortlessly. Indeed, substance is the eternal theme, the fundamental that withstands the test of time. When you refine your inner self thoroughly, even if your appearance is plain, you'll leave a lasting impression on people. As the saying goes, attractive appearances are commonplace, but an interesting soul is a rare find—this is the essence of substance.

However, substance is not everything absolute. Sometimes, excessively emphasizing substance might result in being overlooked in the professional world. In the end, we shouldn't pit substance against surface but find a balance between the two.

Surface and substance are like sugar and milk in coffee—they need to be balanced for a good taste. Too much sugar, and coffee becomes overly sweet; too much milk, and it loses its original richness. Similarly, excessive emphasis on surface might make you appear flashy and insincere; excessive emphasis on substance might make you seem rigid and uninteresting. Balance is the most important aspect!"

Kahn332

But how many people can balance both surface and substance?

Jafar224

No one takes the time to understand your rich soul through your unkempt appearance; everyone is too busy.

Niti998

I believe money is the most important; everything else is secondary.

Samiksha

However, how to strike that balance depends on one's own cultivation.