Let's talk about when marriages have endured for a long time

Samiksha

Recently, I befriended a group of very successful individuals, all of whom can be considered prominent bosses with impressive economic statuses. Initially, they gave the impression of having happy families, showing great care for their wives and children. However, as time went on, I was shocked to learn from one of them that each person in the group had a secret lover behind their spouse's back.

This revelation led me to contemplate the concept of "family happiness" and raised questions about whether marriages, over time, lose their freshness, resulting in the fading of spousal relationships. As marriages endure, could the passion and novelty between spouses dwindle? Long-term marriages often become routine, with couples gradually losing the excitement that characterized the initial stages, transitioning from passionate lovers to familial companions. Observing my friends' situations, it seems that part of the reason for extramarital affairs may be the transformation of spousal relationships into familial interactions due to the prolonged duration of marriage, losing the initial thrill and sweetness.

Certainly, I believe this is not the sole reason. While the freshness in marriage may indeed diminish, how to face this challenge requires joint efforts from both spouses. Communication, understanding, respect, and care are crucial to maintaining a marriage. Seeking freshness outside the marriage may not be the only solution to address these issues.

On the other hand, societal attitudes are gradually changing, and we need to approach marriage more openly, realizing that long-lasting marital relationships require joint efforts to keep things vibrant. Experiencing new things together, maintaining passion, mutual respect, and support are effective ways to prevent marriage from becoming dull.

In conclusion, marriages may lose some freshness over time, but it is not the sole cause of extramarital affairs. The key lies in the joint efforts of both spouses and the adaptation and adjustment of marital perspectives. As marriages endure and lose passion and novelty, how do you maintain the emotional connection between spouses when all that's left is familial affection?

Kamal531

Over time, one can seek excitement through alternative means.

Kabir903

Certainly, as time goes by, fatigue is inevitable; it's a common experience for everyone.

Indra55

Respect, mutual trust, and belief in each other can certainly help rediscover the initial feelings.