Are some people naturally resilient, while others aren't? Is it their fault?

Kamal531

Those who seem to have no clue about resilience, what's their deal? Let's discuss.

Firstly, let's understand what 'resilience' means. It's the ability to remain calm, adapt, and solve problems when facing various pressures and challenges. In essence, it's whether you can withstand strong winds like a straw and still stand tall. Some people seem to be like superheroes, effortlessly handling pressure and difficulties.

On the other hand, some may feel like they've got a 'resilience' product with zero effectiveness, constantly feeling overwhelmed by problems. So, what's the issue here? Firstly, we need to realize that people are different. Just like how some love spicy food while others can't handle it, everyone's physiological and psychological qualities vary. Some people have naturally strong resilience, while others don't, and that's not inherently their fault.

Secondly, we must acknowledge that resilience can be developed. Just like playing basketball, the more you practice, the better you get. Some may naturally excel at shooting hoops from the start, while others may need more time and effort to practice. Similarly, some may have faced various setbacks and challenges since childhood, honing their resilience over time. As for others, perhaps they haven't found the right method to develop their resilience or haven't faced enough challenges yet.

Lastly, we can't overlook the influence of the environment on resilience. Just like how soil affects the growth of seeds, the environment in which a person grows up greatly influences their resilience. If someone grows up in a comfortable and sheltered environment, rarely facing challenges and pressures, their resilience may not be as strong as those who have lived in adversity. Therefore, the environment is also a significant factor contributing to differences in resilience.

In conclusion, some people have strong resilience, while others don't, and that's not their fault. Everyone has their own characteristics and experiences, and resilience can be improved through appropriate training and environmental influences. So, don't feel like there's something wrong with you if you don't have strong resilience; instead, see it as an opportunity to grow stronger.

977Iti

Any problem with anything is definitely a human problem.

Indra55

Resilience varies from person to person, and it's about approaching events rationally.

Jafar224

Those who believe they have strong resilience probably haven't encountered something that would make them crumble yet.

Kahn332

It definitely wouldn't be their fault.