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"It's actually very simple, very natural! Love should be shared by both. I really like the lyrics from the song ""Blank Space."" Love is indeed something that should be shared by both, not supported by just one side. But today, I'm not talking about my girlfriend; it's about my brother.
Here's the story: He's living with his girlfriend, and during this time, he's been the one paying the rent, utilities, and buying groceries. His girlfriend hasn't contributed anything, not even helping with cleaning. He told me that it feels a bit unfair and stressful.
I agree; I'd feel stressed too. When I live with my girlfriend, even though she doesn't contribute money, we keep the place clean and she cooks. It's like I provide the money, and she contributes her effort. That way, it's not one-sided giving.
I advised my brother to talk to his girlfriend about this issue. When there's a problem, it must be addressed and resolved rather than left unattended. Perhaps the girl hasn't done much household work, I think. But it's not good to have things one-sided like this; it can harm the relationship.
I'm lucky my own girlfriend is pretty good, even though she gets jealous sometimes. But, overall, she's a nice person! Today, I didn't have much luck in gambling, but I'm not worried. Money will come when it's time; constantly waiting for it doesn't make it come any faster. So, let's go with the flow." |
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