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I don't know if everyone has read the book 'A Good Life, Unhurried and Calm.'
Life now seems to have become 'simple,' yet it doesn't feel that way.
Personally, my current state is neither very happy nor unhappy.
When I'm busy with work, it feels like I lack nothing, but when I have free time, I realize there's nothing.
Although I feel weary inside, life still needs to be lived well!
The future seems distant, yet strangely close.
Perhaps I'm not prepared yet, not ready to step into the next stage of life.
Lately, my partner has been insisting on moving in together, but after careful consideration, I still feel it's not suitable.
I've had experiences with cohabitation in the past, and many things happened that make me reluctant to live together.
So when my partner brought up the idea of moving in together recently, I rejected it without much thought.
Think about it, what does cohabitation mean! Who pays for rent, water, and electricity? Who does the laundry, cleaning, cooking, and grocery shopping?
Anyway, I feel it's not suitable. Do you think living together is as simple as playing house?
Sigh... It feels like he's not mature enough. I advise everyone, if you don't want to be as troubled as I am, it's better to find a more mature partner.
Although accompanying someone in their growth is good, I don't have the obligation to accompany you through your journey of maturing! |
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Post time 11-11-2023 10:07:59